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Helpful Phone Numbers
Crisis Support & Suicide Prevention
Mental Health & Trauma Support
Ph: 1800 187 263
Mental Health Support
Crisis Support & Suicide Prevention
Information for Aboriginal victims of crime about victims' rights and how to access counselling and financial assistance
Ph: 1800 019 123
www.victimsservices.justice.nsw.gov.au
MENS' REFERRAL SERVICE 24/7
Assistance, information and counselling to help men who use family violence and would like help
Ph: 1300 766 491
www.ntv.org.au
Counselling, Advice, Emergency Accomodation, Legal Support & Medical Services for Women
1800 656 463
www.facs.nsw.gov.au/domestic-violence/helpline
Support, Counselling, Referrals & Help for Men
Ph: 1300 789 978
www.mensline.org.au
QLIFE
7 days 3pm-12pm
LGBTIQ Online & Phone Peer Support & Referrals
Ph: 1800 184 527
www.qlife.org.au
FAMILY VIOLENCE PREVENTION LEGAL SERVICE
Culturally sensitive assistance to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander victim/survivors of family violence and sexual assault incl. court support, child protection, information and referral services
www.nationalfvpls.org/
Relationship Support Services for Individuals, Families & Communities
Ph: 1300 364 277
www.relationships.org.au
Sexual Assault, Domestic & Family Violence
Ph: 1800 737 732
www.1800respect.org.au
Telephone Support for families of drug users
Ph: 1300 368 186
www.fds.org.au
A free, private and confidential phone and online counselling service for children, teens & young adults aged 5-25.
Ph: 1800 551 800
www.kidshelpline.com.au
Mon - Fri 8am to 8pm, Sat - 10am to 4pm
Closed Sundays & Public Holidays
Free & simple legal advice & information to families going through separation
Ph: 1800 050 321
www.familyrelationships.gov.au/talk-someone/advice-line
WOMENS' LEGAL SERVICE
Tues 1:30 - 4:30, Thurs 9:30 - 12:30
Advice, information, casework and legal education on family law and family violence matters for women.
Ph: 1800 801 501
www.wlsa.org.au
Handy Factsheets
Relevant Research
Long Hours & Longings
Strazdins, L., Baxter, J. A. and Li, J. 1300 045 020
Copyright - Commonwealth of Australia
This study shows that very long hours, non-standard work times and work pressures have a significant impact on how children view time spent with their father. It also shows that a child’s view about their father’s work demands tends to tally with their father’s: that they share the same sentiment.
Fathers who use violence: Options for Safe Practice where there is Ongoing Contact with Children
Humphreys, C. & Campo, M. (2017)
Copyright - Commonwealth of Australia
This paper responds to the challenge that arises when women and children may not be in a position to separate from their abusive and violent partners, and when women and children’s wellbeing and safety may not be enhanced by separation.
Couple Relationships -
Then & Now
by Qu, Lixia 1300 045 020
Copyright - Commonwealth of Australia
This report presents a snapshot of the changes reporetd in couple relationships since 1980 and includes facts and figures on the decline in marriage, increasing age of marriage, rise and fall in divorce rates and increasing support for same sex partnerships and marriage in Australia.
What Contributes to Placement Moves in Out of Home Care?
by Farrugia, C. & Joss, N. (2021)
Copyright - Commonwealth of Australia
This review found that a number of factors are likely to increase the risk of a placement move and reduce the duration of first placement. Key factors include the age at which a child first enters OOHC and the presence of externalising behaviour, particularly where carers feel at risk.
Bromfield, L., Lamont, A. Parker, R., Horsfall, B. 1300 045 020.
This paper investigates the separate impacts of parental substance misuse, domestic violence and parental mental health problems. It presents evidence regarding the extent to which these problems co-occur and a discussion of the wider context of exclusion and disadvantage, its causes and its consequences.
Robinson, E., Rodgers, B, Butterworth, P. 1300 045 020
Copyright - Commonwealth of Australia
This paper gives a brief overview of mental health problems, including types and prevalence, causes of mental illness, and family-related risk and protective factors.
The impact of mental health problems on family relationships and family dynamics will be explored, including the role of carers and relationship issues resulting from, or contributing to, the presence of a mental health problem.
Commerford, J., Hunter, C. 1300 045 020
This paper identifies the characteristics of families using CCS's, and key issues in service provision that were identified through a search of Australian and international literature.
The issues focused on are: understanding the best interests of children in the context of CCSs; the challenges in working with families to move to self-management of their parenting time; and the potential benefits of an integrated social services model as a strategy for addressing these issues.
Vassallo, S. & Swami, N. 1300 045 020
Copyright - Ausrt. Inst. of Family Studies
This study uses data from children aged 10–11 and 12–13 to examine the issues that concern Australian children and whether these worries change as young people move from being ‘tweens’ to teens.
Comparisons are made between girls and boys, children from different family and cultural backgrounds and those living in country and city areas.
This information may be helpful for parents and educators to support children and teens as they move through adolescence
Recommended Podcasts
Relationships aren't the sole topic in this delightful celebrity interview show from married comedians Naomi Ekperigin and Andy Beckerman (or "Jewboo," as Ekperigin calls him).
But they regularly answer listeners' relationship-related advice questions, and often welcome another couple
as guests.
Co-Parenting is the relationship that never ends. If your ex is difficult to deal with, if you are experiencing high-conflict and/or the children are being hurt by the behavior of your ex partner, then this podcast is for you. Learn principles, tools and techniques to create peace in high conflict co-parenting relationships.
Two courageous women discuss the trials, tribulations, and triumphs they encounter while attempting to build a positive co-parenting relationship. Sharing the same husband (April is the wife of Loren’s ex-husband), together they co-parent six children. This podcast advocates for better communication and putting the needs of your children above your own.
In each episode, a different couple sits down to spill the details of their troubled relationship. As listeners, we get to learn something as we eavesdrop on real life counselling and therapy sessions.
Designed for the time poor parent who just wants answers now. Learn practical tips for a common sense approach to parenting. Dr Coulson uderstands and appreciates the challenges of parenting and offers real advice to help you make your family happier.
If you love someone who struggles with addiction, you’re not powerless over this disease. You don’t need to wait for your loved one to get better to start to feel joy, happiness, and love. If you feel exhausted from trying to help, depressed when they start using again and worried this roller coaster ride will never end, this podcast can help you find answers, and hope.
Tips and answers to your real-world parenting dilemmas, be it screen time, tantrums, building resilience, homework and more. This is a common sense, relatable, practical guide to raising kids of all ages today.
The Adult Chair is a manual for life — a path for better relationships, more self-love and compassion and as well as greater peace and joy every day. Using an integrated approach, you recognize how all of your life experiences have shaped you — and then use that awareness to regain control.
If you are contemplating divorce, or in the middle of a fight you never wanted to have, then this podcast is for you. ABC journalist, Tamara Oudyn, explores what it takes to have a good divorce. Hear heartfelt advice on how to keep things amicable from top experts and those who have pulled it off. It is irreverent, honest, funny, sometimes heartbreaking but always informative. Warning: There will be swear words. Nobody gets through divorce without swearing. A lot.
Recommended Reading
Book Recommendations Coming Soon
Depression is a major consequence of family separation for both adults & children, and a major risk factor for suicide, especially amongst men.
More awareness & support is needed for the mental health of Dads, Mums & Kids, during & following family break down.
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Acknowledgement of Country
We acknowledge the traditional owners of the land upon which Hope Family Cottage's services are provided. We pay our respect to Aboriginal Elders past, present and emerging, and thank them for caring for the land, water and sky where where we work and where our families meet.
Hope Family Cottage services are provided on, and always will be provided on, Aboriginal land.